just venting 💔😔

I miss my boyfriend so much well should I say ex, he texted me he doesn't want to hurt me anymore and ever since he hasn't texted at all it's been 9 days since we havnt spoken and I'm so devastated idk what to do, we are in a LDR but he should be Comming home soon in a week or two yesterday was our 1 yr and 2 month anniversary I texted him "I love you💚" and he never replied back to me.. He never officially broke up with me wich is why I still say he's my bf I still post about him on sc and he sees them I think if it would bother him he would text me to not post about us anymore but he doesn't.. He does have a lot of stress rn since he is layed off rn so idk if I should just back of and wait till he comes home or if to keep trying :( I don't want to lose him.. He had so many plans when he came back he told his mother he was going to build a home for us , I went to go see his mom and they already started building the home and she went and show me, but idk why he doesn't speak to me.. I talked to his mom bout it and she talked to him but he didn't tell her it was over all he said was he needs time right now.. 😔💔