Miscarrying

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Hey ladies... wanted to reach out and see the community of women on here who have suffered from miscarriages. 
I've had two in the last year, and this last one REALLY has hurt me. I was 10 weeks pregnant, which, I understand isn't very far, but we had already started planning. It wasn't planned, but we were very excited. 
It has really tore both me and my man up. I understand this isn't a popular subject, as a lot of us just don't like to share. But I want to hear what you have all done to "help" cope?
I named my first baby, and I felt closure after that, with a lot of counseling as well. 
I'm stuck thinking about it all the time though. It makes me sad to hold our baby in our hearts, not our hands. 
I just want to hear how some of you guys have learned to cope with this feeling?
Thank you.
Xoxo