Omg. This woman

So I've posted before about my bfs mother and how terrible she is towards me, worse now that I'm pregnant.

She came over today and took me on. Like not in fighting terms but argument terms. Like I'm petty and I don't give a shit about her feelings cause I still haven't received no apology for her abortion comment.

She told me that I HAD to spend Christmas with them this year. Like no?

From day one my boyfriend had known that I spend Christmas with my family.

Then she said "compromise" and I still like... "no"

And she said things are different and I was like "until I push this child out of me, I'm still doing everything the same. I don't have to do anything to please you" and she looks at her son (my boyfriend) like he was meant to say something.

He just said that when it comes closer to Christmas, we'll decide.

Now if it was Christmas eve or boxing day, I wouldn't have a problem but I've always spent Christmas with my family since my lil sister was 9 and diagnosed with cancer. Plus the event is at a house of a person that neither me or my boyfriend even know and I've never had anything to do with. (Its his sister in laws mums house)

Then she said some other things but I was so mad that she was trying to tell what i had to do, that I just zoned out. (With 2 younger siblings, that easy to do)

I know it sounds like I was being immature but she is actually a terrible person and it's got to the point where I just don't want to deal with her anymore.

She also criticised me for wanting to tell me best friend in 15+ years that I'm pregnant to her face. She asked why I just don't do it over the phone like everyone else. LIKE NO DONNA! NOT ALL OF US GET DRUNK AND TELL PEOPLE SOMEONE ELSES NEWS.

Then told me I was dumb for wanting to take my niece out there to see her horses and the lambs. Like say one more thing about me, and that's it. Cut off.

*should add, my boyfriend has told her where to stick her opinions. That he is an adult and she has no say in what happens. This lead her to say that she would keep her mouth shut but she hasn't. He lets me deal with it because I'm stubborn as heck and won't back down until she understands whos carrying this child.

Also, if my boyfriend wants to go to the Christmas event, he can but I won't be going or making any plans to go until next Christmas. The person hosting it this year, I've never met, so I dont see why it's being said I have too go.