heartbroken 😢
Me and my boyfriend of 2 years have just broken up and I'm absolutely devastated. It was basically a mutual decision because we both want different things.
We broke up last night and we both cried and told eachother we still love one another but we know we're better off not together. We kept arguing about stupid things and we never did anything different. He admitted last night he knew I was trying to help our relationship by wanting to do new things and that he is very stubborn and won't do anything out of his comfort zone. (The pub). This never bothered me at first and we always used to have loads of fun but I look at a future with him and I cannot imagine living the rest of our lives how we do. I'm not a materialistic person at all but I would love to go away together on holiday and go on surprise dates etc but he's just not that way inclined and as much as it annoys me, I know I can't change him and I would never want to.
I wasn't much better tbf cause towards the end I would get paranoid and worry if there was someone else so one night a few weeks ago I checked his phone 😖 (please don't judge) and I felt so guilty cause I didn't find Anything. That put a massive strain on our relationship cause he then started questioning why didn't trust him etc. I know that was wrong he eventually forgave me but it hasn't been the same since.
I know our relationship wasn't healthy but I just feel so lost and want him back but I know deep down it's not right :(
My friends have been awesome and have made plans with me to keep my mind off him but don't know what to do. I need break up tips 😂
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