The "perfect" baby bump..

I am sick of the mixed reactions I get for my belly. We dont get to choose how our bellies will turn out during pregnancy, its just all by chance. I happen to be one of the people who have a small bump, with no stretch marks on my belly. Because thats all people see, I get comments about how its "unfair" that ive got that lucky and not stretched. I also get told how I should not show my belly because its disrespectful towards people who have got stretchmarks on theirs. So "bigger" women or women with stretchmarks are aloud to be proud of their bodies because its apparently more inspirational that they can be that confident, but the smaller people cant? Nope it shouldnt work like that. EVERYONE should be proud that we are carrying a new human being, and everyone is different and if we cant accept that during pregnancy, what kind of example are we setting for the children we are carrying? Just because I dont have stretch marks on my belly, doesnt mean I dont have them all across my back, legs and bum that have appeared during pregnancy... but people dont think about that. Enjoy your bumps, no matter how big/stretched they are! Here is mine at 38+2weeks, along with my stretch marks 💞💞