I'm just going to vent for a second

I posted what we will be naming our baby if it is a boy. I gave the back story on the name, that it is after my SO's grandfather, who raised him, and the middle name is after my father and brother. And someone on here, decided to go on a 3 comment rant about how it's an ugly name, and my child will be made fun of. Oscar Allen doesn't seem ridiculous, considering I know people named after fucking watermelons and peaches and types of clouds and so on. So please, explain to me, when this app because so judgement based. When I first came here, everyone was so loving, now it's like a battle zone every time you post something.