how to tell him I love him?

Question

So me and my boyfriend have been dating since September 14th 2016 and then made it official on October 15th 2016 and we spend so much time together, I lost my virginity to him and he's the person I want to be with for the rest of my life.

I really want to tell him I love him but I'm so scared because I've never said it to anyone before, is it weird for the girl to say it first?

I have so many fears like it will make him weird towards me or he'll freak out and leave me or my biggest fear is he'll say it back but not mean it because he doesn't want to hurt my feeling.

Any advice or stories of girls saying I love you first?

Answer

My boyfriend and I have a similar time line to yours but he was the first one to say I love you. 
I'd say as long as you know you love him go for it! You two sound like you're both in love with each other and worst case scenario you find out he's not the person you're meant to be with.  
I was really nervous to say it because I never had before either but we had "the moment" and when that happened it didn't matter anymore who said it first. Try not to worry about it too much and get yourself stressed out which I know is basically impossible and probably not helpful to hear
Good luck! Wish you two the best!

Answer

Well I totally messed up the first time I said it. My SO and I were long distance and he sent me a snapchat that said "I love you" and so I sent one back saying the same thing and we left it at that. Then the next day he was like "so about last night. The I love you's and stuff" and I don't know but I just got really bad anxiety and acted like I didn't know what he was talking about and it got me really scared and it really upset him and ugh. I was such an idiot. But he's still with me 2 years later so I guess I made up for it!

I think that you shouldn't think too hard on it. And just say it when it feels right. I kept planning on when to say it and it clearly didn't work out. When you're in that moment just say it ☺️

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