Just in need of a vent.

It will be a year in February that we will have started trying for a baby of our own. In that time 4 other women I know have announced they are pregnant. My friend told me today she had only been trying for a week and is now 9 weeks pregnant. Why can it not be my turn!

I know exactly what our biggest problem is. My husband and me have struggled with our sex life. He manages to become aroused but can rarely come in me. It's now become the elephant in the room and I just don't know how to bring up the fact we need help with out hurting him. On top of all this we both work difficult shifts. He is night shift so for half our week we only briefly see each other and the other half he is so tired or I'm at work. It's now been 3 weeks since we last tried and I'm at such a lose on what to do next. We love each other so much and I know we would love our child more than anything in this earth but it feels like fate is telling me this is not meant for me. This is me at my lowest point and I just feel like somebody on this forum might feel the same pain I do. How do people cope?

Sorry for the vent I'm just at a low point today. I know how lucky I am to have a wonderful kind man in my life and a loving family round me. I just want one tiny bit more.