question about the path

So I'm on the birth control patch called Xulane and The cycle goes changing the patch every week on the same day. After three patches or three weeks you remove the patch and you fourth week you don't have a patch on and that's when I get my period. So my question is had anyone continuously used he patch to stop you period? Also Is that safe to do and if so should I start doing it right away? My wedding is December 10 and I'm suppose to have my period that week and do not want my period on my wedding day. So if I can use the patch continuously to stop my period do I need to start doing that now so it starts stopping my period or will it stop my period automatically? Also a side note my period usually comes a day or two before I take the patch off on week 4.