update! he doesn't want me to keep his baby

You can always get another man. Or do without.

Don't ever let a man control your emotions or the blessing you are creating.  Don't ever second guess your ability to become a great mother due to someone else's insecurities and selfishness. I'm due this week and can guarantee you that evolving with your child is one of the best if not the best journeys we as women get to be a part of. You have a life that one day will smile and live for you because of you. No greater joy I tell you. Ditch the zero! 

Same thing happened to me & I kept my daughter. Best decision I've ever made in my life! Babies are blessings! Yes unplanned and unexpected but worth it. Just be prepared to possibly do it on your own. 

It's really your choice but babies are a blessing from God. In his eyes he may not be ready. But sweetie it may be your time HE MAKES NO MISTAKES the child didn't ask to be here so why should a innocent little human die on one call??? It's your choice think long and hard BUT FAST because 10 weeks the baby is growing and you don't want to put your body through that emotional physically and mentally. My twin sister has had three abortions by the same guy THREE and they have been together about the same amount of time she just had my niece three years ago and they are no longer together but she loves that little girl and says she regrets getting rid of her other three because she doesn't want to make the same mistake with someone else. Now she has a amazing guy that wants kids and they have tried but no luck. Don't miss out on your blessing he can't make his mind up right now but don't let him decide for you and that angel as well BEST OF LUCK if he really loves you he would be happy to have that baby with you.

If YOU want to keep the baby. Keep it. Don't let him make a decision for you. 

Omg if he ain't ready now he will never be ready. You're gonna have to choose the baby or him. :*( Good luck.

Keep ur baby you wouldn't be pregnant if it was the wrong time! If he truly loves you he will stay. Be strong your baby is also yours not just his.

Im sorry youre going through that! Im 29 as well and ours was not planned, we planned to wait a few years until we were more financially stable but surprise, baby is coming in 2017! Knowing how many people around me are struggling to get pregnant even at my age, i took it as a blessing and we figured out a way to make it work! I hope you can as well, you do what you believe is the right thing for you and pray that baby's daddy comes on board at some point along the way! If he doesnt, then you may have some tough decisions to make, but a beautiful baby too!

I'd show him the door and say "buh-bye". 👋🏼