boyfriend of a year not wanting se anymore ???

Question

So my boyfriend of a year told me just now that he didn't want to have sex anymore because he felt like since that's a sin in the Bible God will not bless us. Mind you we lost our virginity to eachother 6 months ago and we have had it frequently including last night... advice?? I'm lowkey hurt but it.

He also tells me all the time how he can't wait to spend the rest of his life with me etc.. and just now he said he wants to spend the rest of his life with me but if God has a different plan then oh well..

How would y'all go about this situation??

Answer

My ex did this same thing to me. It was such a strain because he would make comments like I don't think your the one for me anymore but I wish God would allow me to spend the rest of my life with you. At the end of the day he just didn't know what he wanted in life anymore and I did. He was my first true love and it took me a year to get over him. In the end losing him was the best thing that has ever happened to me. I am now married to my wonderful husband and I couldn't imagine it any other way. I see him every once in a while and I feel so close to him but also like he is a stranger. Just let things fall where they fall. I know that after all the pain is something 100x better 😘

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I would say just talk to him and judge for yourself if he is still 100% into your relationship. If he's not then tell him and move on, look for the person that will put 1000% in and never feel like they give too much.

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Well I'm actually in the same situation but not quite. I'm the one who decided I wanted to stop and wait til marriage and my bf is actually very supportive. If ur willing to wait that's great but how I see it from his Prespective, If my bf wasn't ok with it then I would be mad and sad. Like I'd feel like all I am is sex to him. I get how u feel and trust me it'll be hard. But if u do love him and if u wanna spend the rest of ur life with him then go with it. Honestly I see the fact that he doesn't see u as someone to have sex with like he genuinely enjoys u and who u are without even having to be sexual. It doesn't mean he doesn't like it he just doesn't wanna go against God who is more important than anyone even u.

boyfriend of a year not wanting se anymore ???

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