Wanted to share my situation with my partner. Our relationship was good , never argued ,then our daughter was born and arguments started to make our relationship tens , when it comes to make a decision we never have same solution. I wanted to breast feed for as long as I can but I had some problems and he wanted me to just give up and start formula ,I kept trying but he just kept pushing on me to stop ,so I did. Then we argued about immunisation , I would do it anyway , all I said I want to do more research as I heard so many bad things about it and he would argue about that then she was 3 months and he wanted to start feeding her , I didn't . So many arguments about this we had. I wanted to start at 6 months as she was perfectly fine with milk . So in the end we started at 4 and half months. Even her toys makes us argue , he wanted to buy her walker , I said I don't , I was reading it actually can slow down babies walking development and it can be dangerous. He did research in the end on his own and agreed that she don't need one but his mum got one for her anyway . .. then it's food, he says she can eat everything just not too much , he wanted to give her gravy and beans I was like !what ?! Then he thinks leaving dog in same room with baby on the floor is fine , well I don't think so . I have to start work soon and I feel appointment with stressed leaving her with him especially as she will start crawling soon . I don't want to keep saying him what to do cos it makes him angry and we argue again .