Would you be mad too if your boyfriend did this...?

So my boyfriend and I had sex last night for the first time. He is 8.5 inches and thick. And you know I'm tiny. Well, I was aroused and wet and we used plenty of lube. It was hurting but I thought that was just how it was going to stretch and fit. And then there was blood on the condom and it was like a period but not a heavy period. So I am pretty sure it tore my vagina. My vagina does my hurt, just at the time it did. I know I can get infections easier, so I am just not going to touch it.

How long until I can have sex again?

So here is what I got pissed about:

He texted a friend that is a girl and told her about it and asked how if it is normal and shit.

I'm sorry, but it is my vagina and my sex life... Not her business for him to be asking about. She said it was normal and happens a lot. Well guess what? She isn't in the medical field. Ughh. Just was embarrassing for me...

What are your thoughts?