Men and the beginning stages of a relationship.

In the Beginning stages of a newer relationship they tell you how much they care for you appreciate you love being around you but when it time for guy to guy talk all they can do is talk shit... i mean not physically about me but basically saying they aren't tied down they dont no woman blah blah blah just trying to act tough when in reality they are a big softy. Is it just me or do majority of men do this to you too ladies...