I want to but my husband doesn't. I brought it up to him calmy the other day, asked why he hasn't tried anything. He said that he hasn't been in the mood..and I get it! He works overnight at a stressful job, helps with the baby when he can...I know it's alot and he is affectionate in other ways, kissing and hugging..I guess I just have to be patient. And not let my insecurities get the best of me.