not sure where to post this but, MIL and SIL issues...

At the beginning she was cool, no problem and then money of mine started going missing and I caught her going through my bags one night when I passed by my boyfriend(now husband) house to leave something for him while he was working. 

I was civil but she just became someone I didn't care for.. and my husband knows.

There's been times she's out of line and says things that strike a nerve and my husband could tell because I'd just close off to the whole situation.. 

There was even a time she walked in while we were just cuddling in bed and gets all rude and started going off about how we should be using protection because she didnt want to be a grandma any time soon ( he was 28, I was 20 and she's 60🙄)

So when we found out we were pregnant we kept it from her for about 3 months, my parents knew from the beginning basically- my mom knew before me. 

And when we finally told her she was like "oh god, I don't want to be called grandma" and after hearing her say that I closed myself off from wanting to share stuff about the baby since the baby is affecting her so much 🙄 

One night we went to see her because she had moved and asked my husband to pass by and pick up some of his mail and see if he could write her a check - and we got to talking about the baby and my husband starts talking about how my mom and grandma are so excited and they've been buying the baby all sorts of clothes and little things and been talking about which one of them is going to hold her first and what not ( my side of the family got really excited once they found out it was a girl" 

And she starts saying.. "well I'll be a grandma too , shouldn't I get to hold her too" 

Well of course she'll get to hold her at some point but she hasn't been there for me during my pregnancy or tried to involve her self in anything it's been my mom and grandma so they'll be the ones who first attend to her and do what they want with her no problem- her on the other hand is a lying, narcissistic theif who has no rights, she will be given the chance to hold the baby but that's all.. I honestly wouldn't let her watch over the baby or be in charge of her in any way ( as awful as it sounds ) 

Anways, Well she's always bothering him for money, after he was paying her $800 car payment for forever.. that she has because she's awful with money management. 

She's always bothering him for something but always talks crap about him but will praise her other son left and right and not bother him for anything 🙄🙄

And the brother has a fiancée whom I thought I was cool with until one time I was helping her find wedding bands on Etsy and she just stopped replying to me 

Which ok, people get busy. 

But I texted her a couple days after trying to get my DVD of our baby because I was going back to an appointment and they add footage every time we go back and she never answered me

I had to send my husband to go contact them and get the dvd back.

She's been a little sad because her fiancé doesn't want to have a baby until they're married and have a house and all that so she's suffering from baby fever but she was cool with us being pregnant because she loves babies.

Well we hadn't talked in over a month but I had seen my MIL twice when my husband took her some money she wanted.. and he ended up inviting her to my little brothers birthday 🙄 and I figured she would not come since well she's white and my whole family is very loud hispanics and she wouldn't have really fit in with parents and their kids and a busy atmospere, but she showed up of course.. well I ended up talking to her for a little bit in the ruckus and shuffling of helping my mom and hosting others and talking about my bump with everyone lol 

And she goes and tells me that the SIL has been wondering how I've been doing and she goes and tells her that I'm great and she sees me all the time and we hang out and all this none sense to i don't know, make her jealous or mad? It really upset me because I've seen her twice ! And for Barely 10 mins.. 😒

So now there's more tension I'm guessing between me and my SIL but i don't know ??  I haven't talked to her and I'm not going to try or anything.. but it really bothered me because the SIL knows how I feel about the MIL because she's had her handful of problems with her.. 

I don't know where I was going with this, I guess I had to ramble I don't really have anyone to talk to about any of this :(