Long distant relatives try to judge my "poor life choices" of being a single mum 😠😠😠

Now I'm not sure if I've mentioned this before but I have an auntie and uncle who live hours away from me and the last time I visited them was a year ago.

My older sister is very well connected with our family and so when she went to visit her fiances family they took a day off to themselves to drive down to see our auntie and uncle.. To see how they are and to have a catch up.

Now none surprisingly I did become the key topic of the night as my sister explained how my husband treated me and my parents had to rush and fly me home to safety because of his scary behaviour and the time was ticking with my pregnancy.

Yes I live with my sister and her fiancé as a temporary thing until the baby is born in January and then I'll be able to get my own accommodation sorted which is annoying that I have to wait. To make it up for my sister and her fiancé I do all the cleaning up and whatever I can to help out round the flat.

Anyway... My auntie and uncle were doing nothing but talking down about me. They said things like if they worked full shifts and came Home to see that I'd done no house work they would get angry too and so they didn't blame my husband for his behaviour they made out I brought it on myself. My sister instantly stood up for me and explained that I did everything round the house and that wasn't the reason he got angry. She gave an example to my uncle of what my husband was like and it luckily shut him up.

My auntie however kept on saying I'm lazy and won't ever move out of my sisters place and that I'm sponging and manipulating them etc. Which is BS.

They tried to make out I over exaggerated the abuse I was put through and made out I'll never work ever again and said that because I'm having a baby it will ruin my life.

Everyone's fallen out with them now because they are rich snobs who do nothing better but to judge other peoples lives and think theirs are so "perfect".

Now they've never had children of there own despite wanting to so they can't fully understand the lengths my parents went to to help me out.

I helped my parents out when they needed it by paying £600 rent every month for 3 years to live with them .