Am soo not an object

I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now . Amn't that happy about it. because am very loving and sweet  he just takes me for  granted .
 recently i thought to myself. amn't going to wallow in this. he isn't going to change and there is nothing i can do about it. 
So  a cute guy at work asked me to go to the beach with him which i did. He was even worse he wasn't keen on making any type of conversation but càme up with every excuse to touch me. when i said  i was uncomfortable with all the touching. he dropped me off at the nearest bus stop.
I hate hate how people are so obsessed with looks . why not get to know the person. 
Am a person who has dreams , a life and family , not a vagina that you can bang.
sex must be so good tho.  make all this effort to see me and take me out just for sex.