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Question

I was a bit thrown off by what my SO said to me yesterday while at work. **Im the pink hes the grey** not really sure how to feel. I told him im not comfortable on that topic n just changed the subject.

** okay i see some are confused by how the topic came up. We've been dating for a few months now but met in the swingers LS so talking about this isnt something too far fetched. I was just caught off guard by how random it was. **

Ps. Thank you all who have commented the positive and mature way. I really appreciate it!

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Well one positive is he obviously trusts you and wants to open up to you about his kinks - so thats not a bad thing.

If you really like him - maybe you could start a little lighter - talk to him about toys or other ways you could ease yourself into this.

If your really not comfortable with it then try to respect him regardless - ask if there is any other fantasies you could fulfill instead.

Really hope that request wasnt as out of the blue as it looked though lol poor you

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So try a finger first. Then a toy. He wants to experiment with you, that's a good thing!

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If he wants it, and youre comfortable with it. Try it. You can order a toy online and never have to walk into a store and he can help you pick one out.

Be happy hes coming to you with that and not someone else or getting it from someone else.

I would be open to it if I was with someone that wanted to try. I dont think my man ever will, but youve gotta be open to your partners wants.

Its just like 90% of the women on here who fantasize about being with another female and who are turned on by girl on girl porn. Its normal.

If yall all think its so weird and gross, you need to reevaulate yourselfs and your own personal fetishes and fantasies.

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He wants her to fuck him in the ass with a toy. I would be completely turned off by him .. how long have you guys been dating

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Not my kind of sexy but atleast he telling you

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Completely normal

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This is tough. He obviously trusts you to share his fantasy with you, so that's a good thing. If you are uncomfortable with it, ask him what else he likes. If you're okay with trying new things, try it out. You may enjoy it too. Sex doesn't always have to be so vanilla, it's okay to step out of your comfort zone every now and then especially when you have someone who trusts you that much.

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Some guys like that. It's really not that uncommon. If he wants it and you can get comfortable with it, then do it.

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I have no clue what is going on here.

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Uhhhhhh

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