My oldest sister is like 35 and has a 12 year old boy. He was the only child she could have. I'm 23, but I had a little girl at the young age of 20. But no longer with that father. Now I'm with an amazing man who is a step dad to my child and we have one on the way, when I found out it was a shock and I was telling my sis about it and she says "if anything happens we want the baby"... Like really? I feel that is really rude? Then I told her she could take pics of the baby after the baby is born. My friend who is starting photography wants to do some photos after my baby gets out of the hospital and my sis flipped out saying "I don't want her taking pictures of the baby I am going to. She's my niece!" Like why does anyone have to fight over a baby that's not even yours?! I don't have to let anyone do shot honestly. Then she keeps asking when I'm gonna let everyone come in after I deliver, (she wanted to watch the birth, um NO) I've said many times to everyone, no body is coming up there until I say so and nobody is going into the room until I'm good and ready (plan on breastfeeding). The only person that's gonna get to step foot in there is my first daughter. Nobody is gonna hang around all day. Nobody is going to take pictures and post them everywhere before me!! MY child. I'm getting induced but I'm seriously thinking about not even letting anyone know she's here until an hour or two later... My first labor was traumatic! I want my second to be peaceful with just my fiance... But everyone thinks they gotta poke and push guilt onto me. If anything it would just be me and fiance and my kid. The whole time until I go home. People also want me to go to all these houses for thanksgiving and I'll only be 1 week postpartum ... ugh. Don't think I will even feel like leaving my own house :'(