Anyone crave sex with a past lover even though you are married?

Question

My husband is not very good in bed. I crave the sex I had with someone before him. I have had lengthy discussions with him on how to improve and not much changes. Is this normal? Maybe I don't love my husband enough?

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Ouch. There's plenty of ways to spice up the sex life. N sex isn't the b all n end all in a relationship. Granted it plays a big role but I'd much prefer my husband to cuddle me, hold me when I'm sad, be the father he is to our babies and be loyal n loving than give me mind blowing sex. Our sex life is pretty good although it's harder now I am pregnant but it does not put me off him and doesn't make me want an ex. If u don't love him enough y marry him? But also I'm sure u would of had sex with him possibly before or even at the start of ur marriage if it was shit for u then think of the reasons why u stayed with him and hold onto them because sex really isn't everything x

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Sure, I've thought about. Sex with each person is different, I've had guys that are amazing in bed but complete dicks out of it. Doesn't mean it wasn't fun and it isn't fun to think about sometimes. It's not the reason I married my husband, our sex life is fine but nothing crazy. Sex used to be super important to me and it just isn't as much anymore... it's one small part of our relationship.

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I'm in the same boat. My hubby isn't "bad" but we don't have that chemistry that makes sex good. I love him and he's my best friend. I decided that who he is and how he treats and loves me is more important. With that said, I do miss sex with other men. Doesn't make you a bad person.

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Luckily all my exes are an ex for a reason and I always look back at them and get grossed out like eww I actually slept with that ?!? So it's safe to say no I didn't ever think of any exes while having sex with my husband.

I can imagine though that the next guy I sleep with in the distant future I will think of my husband ( were filing for divorce)

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Oh you love him that's why you talked to him about it. What is he doing that isn't satisfying you? Do you like the fifty shades of grey thing? Or the opposite? What was the guy before your husband doing that you liked soo much? Ever tried role play?

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That sucks. Fortunately my husband is great in bed. He is definitely the best lover I've ever had. He is also about 9 years older than me and has more  experience!😝

Anyone crave sex with a past lover even though you are married?

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