Anyone else? 😓

I'm in a very happy relationship with my husbando but jfc I still want female attention. He's okay with me having a female companion that we share from time to time, if there are rules involved, and his rules aren't anything outrageous and I understand them. But holy goddess is it hard to find a female down with it. 😓 I understand because there's no hope of getting married to either of us, and it isn't really socially acceptable to be in a triad or poly relationship...but as someone in the BDSM scene you would think it would be easier than this. It's been a solid 8 months or more of searching for a female companion. 😞