When did you realize you didnt want to be with your man any more

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When did you realize u didnt want to be with ur man any more we havent had sex in 2 months everything i try that he used to love and new things do nothing for him now he sais hes just stressed from work but i feel alone and im thinking of leaving theres no attention no sex so whats the point ever since the miscarrage things have went down the drain this is not a place i want to be any more but theres no appartments in the area to move right now not shur where to go from here moving with the rents isnt an option they moved to a smaller house theres no extra room for me now

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When I looked for excuses not to go home.

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Maybe he's depressed? Girls aren't the only ones that get depressed and upset when a miscarriage happens. Maybe talk to him about how he's feeling. If you open up about how you feel about it and how you are coping, maybe he will too and y'all can work past it together.

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First off, communicate. Tell him how you felt about losing the baby, tell him your frustrations now. Ask him how he felt or is feeling about everything that you've both been through, ask how he feels about everything you've just said. Then see how you feel after you talk. Just lay it all out there. He won't know something's wrong unless you tell him, he's not a mind reader. That's what I tell my husband at least.

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When he TOLD me I couldn't work at the job I'm at now because he wouldn't see me as often. When he starting tripping when I got my own bank account because his was being taken by an old credit card company. When he started acting like he was my dad and getting on my ass because I stayed out with new friends passed the time he wanted me home. When, after 3 years of being engaged but living with his parents, he still didnt want to do what he needed to do to provide for the family he said he wanted with me. When I couldn't even show my emotions because he'd show his and cry and I have to console him over the fights that he and his mom would have ALL THE DAMN TIME! When I got tired of putting everyone first and myself last! When my sister changed her mind, respectfully, about us adopting her new baby because he wasn't responsible enough! That's when I knew and I'm so happy that I moved on, I feel like I'm on cloud 9 and I'm single!! Giving myself the love I deserve!

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In my first marriage it was a five year decline. I know- I'm stubborn.

On one hand I was becoming someone I didn't like. I was letting other men flirt with me, and going out on Friday nights after our kid was in bed to go salsa dancing.

On the other hand, my husband was incredibly distant. We had sex maybe 3-4 times in the last year. I was lonely. It's not an excuse but it's true. It got worse and worse as the years continued.

I remember the moment I decided to leave him. I got a call from my GyN office that my PAP smear came back abnormal and showed the beginning stages of cancer. I heard the C word at 27 years old and naturally I was upset. As soon as my husband got home I told him what had happened, hoping for some shred of kindness. Instead he brushed me off and said "I'm sure it's nothing and you'll be fine." That was the end for me.

When did you realize you didnt want to be with your man any more

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