So here's the deal. I prefer not to go into the details too much, I just need some advice on how to do it. I found out my fiancé has been texting this girl (6 yrs younger than us btw, disgusting). I haven't told him yet because when I confront him, I want him to really 'feel' it. If you know what I mean. Plus if I confront him with it now, he will most likely say 'you're trippin' OR say 'I'm sorry it was just texting I wasn't going to do anything with her I promise'. Now, I know, this is enough reason for me to leave his ass already but I would like some satisfaction on my part too. And that is, catching him read handed and making him feel like an absolute fucking fool. I just found out they're meeting up at her place tomorrow. And by the looks of it, I'm not 100% sure but I'm pretty certain they're going to have sex. Should I pull up at her door when he leaves her house? Or should I pack my bags and leave (my OWN house but he pays 50% of the rent) while he's out, to go stay with my mother? I have no idea what would hurt him the most. I do know that my words and face to face stuff are way more confronting to him than writing him a letter or an email. I know this sounds crazy.. But I'm just so sick and tired of his lying and cheating and I'm OVER it but I want to give him one last good 'smack in his face'. I'll be 37 weeks pregnant with our first child tomorrow and I'm 100% mentally prepared to leave his ass.