Weight Gain!!!

Tabitha
I'm just curious how much weight everyone gained while pregnant. I am almost 22 weeks have gained 14 pounds. I thought I was doing good and that it didn't do seem like that much but lately it seems like my weight and eating habits are the topic of dicussion with everyone I encounter. I was eating three meals a day but I was getting horrible headaches, I found out my sugar was dropping to low between meals so my doctor told me more frequent but smaller meals. That being said I eat what what seems like very frequently but it's not a lot. I'm constantly hearing how whatnim eating isn't good for me or what I should and should t eat or drink. Today a lady at work literally had the nerve to tell me I need to slow my role on eating. I have always been a thicker female but never been self conscious about it I've always loved my body now I feel like I need to eat in private just to avoid the "advice"... has this happened to anybody else andbif so how did you deal with it? Also is 14 pounds to much for 22 weeks? My doctor hasn't said anything so I didn't think it was bad. The picture is me before pregnancy on the right. As I said I've always been thicker but confident about it now that I'm pregnant I feel like everybody is calling me a cow and making me feel like I should be living off salads... Normally it wouldn't even bother me but I have already been feeling less attractive and trying to deal with it and these hormones aren't helping at all! I feel like I'm always crying and I feel like I should be happy now more than ever!