just hurt right now *UPDATED*

Faelyn
After my bfn today and some other things I've been dealing with I just broke down. My husband told me crying about it would do no good.....I was hurt and told him I just need to feel like I can cry to him. He said something that broke my heart. He said,"you need me to be your rock but I can't, I have my own shit to deal with." I know I'm overly emotional right now but doesn't his shit become my shit and mine become his??? We are married aren't we suppose to be each others rock? I am just sad and have no one to turn to so here I am posting for complete strangers ..... I'm hurt and honestly don't want to get out of bed I've cried on stop for the last two hours....
My husband texted me back and apologized it was just a In the moment thing and he regrets saying it.