should I ask his passcode?

Question

My husband change his passcode 
cause one day I found that he been looking a woman naked photo and been watching a porn everyday,
he get mad at me because I'm questioning him about it.
 And he told me he going change his passcode and all passwords in his email, & he did."

I don't know what to do,    I feel like he doing something wrong but I'm not sure what it is?
I hope you give me advice and hoping you understand my English grammar, Thank  you 😘

Answer

Ehh been there, done that 😒 In my opinion, I think people in relationships shouldn't have pass codes on their phones at all, or you both should know each other's codes, cause you never know what they are doing and why they have a code on their phone in the first place. I agree it sounds like he's being sneaky. Him getting mad about you asking questions and changing his passcode is a red flag for me. I've been through this with my ex. He's always been SUPER private about his phone, in our relationship he always had a passcode and I never thought anything about it cause I put all my trust him in not even thinking he would do anything with anyone else cause he was with me, but I was so wrong. I would straight up ask him wtf he is doing on his phone.

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If it were me, I'd assume he was doing something he shouldn't be doing.

My husband and I are very open with eachother and we both know eachother's passwords to everything.

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I feel like he's being sneaky and it should be no problem for 2 ppl that's in a relationship to share and be open with each other. Maybe some trust issues? You guys should talk before more problems arise. Some guys like there privacy but it shouldn't get to the point where you're sneaking around with his phone. I can go through my boyfriends phon if I wanted to but I choose not to bc I trust him. Even when I do have his phone to use it he doesn't wonder what I'm doing all the time. We have nothing to hide. Do you guys have a lack of sex in your relationship?

should I ask his passcode?

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