Ok, one of my really close friends sister WAS pregnant and at the very beginning she did want to keep it, but she couldn't give up alcohol or drugs and she slowly started to give up on the idea of a baby and nearing 10 weeks pregnant she was just revolted at the fact that there was a baby inside of her so her and her boyfriend decided to get an abortion because they didn't want the baby, which I get. However, after the abortion they both got matching tattoos in memory of their baby AND they told everyone they had a miscarriage!!! I work at the clinic where they got the abortion so because of privacy laws I can't say anything  but as a woman who struggled for years to get pregnant, and has had 2 miscarriages this year I am soooo furious and disgusted!!!! I know it's not my business really and I can distance myself from her, but I'm appalled at the utter negligence of thought for other women out there who struggle everyday with this kind of stuff.