herpes or not?

Betty
Hey everybody new to the page hoping I can get help with my situation it all started A month ago a week after me and my boyfriend had sex I started feeling really sharp pain in my pelvic area and I have felt these pains before also with a throbbing sensation in my pubic area went to the doctor he told me I had genital herpes but I knew I didn't have herpes because I didn't have any bumps ,so he decided to put me on Val tracks to see if that would help my symptoms and for me to take a blood test I took the blood test and it came back negative for herpes Symplex2 but came back positive for herpes Symplex 1 after that I didn't hear anymore from the doctor and I had stopped taking the medicine like after two days because I just knew I didn't have herpes and the symptoms stopped and I felt fine well after that this has happened  now I'm here again but it was worse this time to start off with the pelvic pain and the tingling sensation in the pubic area so I was just thinking I was pregnant took pregnancy test and it came back negative then a few days went on and I started feeling really bad tingling  in my legs but I think it was because of my anxiety because I would look on Google and it was trying to say I had herpes but I just knew I did not have any herpes so then I started feeling a lot of constipation and I could not really sit down on my butt because I was having a lot of rectal pressure I had no bumps or anything on my butt or in my Volvo area or inside then a day later I felt about coming up in my pubic area so that's scared me and I thought it was herpes but the but it was just one Bob and I had hair growing through it and it was burning so I was thinking it was a hairball so I squeeze it in blood and white stuff came out and then it went away within a week later I felt lump under my skin on my outer labia it was painful and it burned it was just a lump under the skin and it never came to ahead so I automatically knew it had to be a hairball so then I started using hot compresses and finally came to ahead and I had a hair in it so it was it was very painful I never felt anything like that so then a few days later I was trying to pop it and it never would pop so then one day I was at work and I was just like I can't take the pain from this bump so I went to the urgent care and had the lady look at it and she told me it was the hair follicle I was so scared because I was thinking it was a wart or herpes because I have a Pap smear took and everything came back fine but my doctor said I did have HPV but I am going to get that Pap smear redone test because I think the doctor did not do my Pap smear correct so she finally told me to see a gynecologist a different gynecologist because the man gynecologist I had was not helping me and I am meant to tell you that during all this he was trying to say I had a hernia which I knew I did not have and I have to go get a CAT scan done which came back negative so now it's a month later and I'm actually saying a new gynecologist and she's trying to help me out last week I took an ultrasound she said my symptoms sound like I'm I have endometriosis or  bladder issue because during the symptoms one day I was trying to P in it would burn only after I Peed and then after IP my bad bladder would feel like it was still full and it would hurt really bad so ladies I'm just so upset right now I have not been able to have sex with my boyfriend from us two months our relationship is just going through a lot of stress because of this and I don't know what's wrong with me ladies do you think that I might really have herpes 1 and not 2 I have took in full panel STD test and everything has came back negative besides the herpes one so that's my only thing I don't know what it could be ladies my doctor my new doctor gynecologist she thinks it's not herpes but I me I don't know what else it could be I'm freaking out and I'm scared and I've been under so much stress I just want to feel better you guys I have never dealt with this kind of pain before my life I just hope some of you ladies can come for me and help me out and tell me what do you think it could be