We got pregnant really early into our relationship, (like, 2.5 months... whoopsies lol) and honestly I was expecting him to bail because I was driving when I told him (rather I couldn't talk, he asked if I was okay so I whipped out the test and handed it to him) and his first words were "oh my gosh please pull over I think I need to throw up." I'm 19 & hes 24 and neither one of us wanted kids ever, so obviously we were both shocked and he was a little.. not disapppinted and not sad, but not happy either, you know? I loved my son the minute I saw the second line, but I think most moms do. Well, I told him from the start, that if he wants to leave, he can. And I won't tell his parents or his family that I'm pregnant with our baby and that he can live his life as if he doesn't have a child out there, but if that's what he wants then he can't come back into the picture in 2-3 years when our baby is a toddler and established with his life. He said he's staying because it's the right thing to do and he wants to be there for our child and me. Which is great. Now here we are, 9 months later, a week from our due date and I couldn't be more thankful for him. He busts his ass everyday for work so that I don't have to work right now, he pays all the bills on his own and still pays for me to cater to myself a little bit (not too much but if I want my nails done he'll pay for it if we have extra money.) and he makes sure I know how much he loves the baby & I. I just wanted to gush about him for a minute. I love him soooo big ❤️