Tired of this shit

Okay so I've been in a relationship going on about 3 years now & I love him to death but I am TIRED of his ass always in my opinion comparing me to either his exes or society's way of how a "woman should act" he always says omg you're so loud & crazy. Why don't you be sweeter, timid basically & act like a female like what? Wtf does that mean?! I act like MYSELF! & ill never apologize for doing so, yes I do know how to act in certain situations around certain ppl but other than that I'm loud at times & a complete goofball! I'm Puerto Rican & at times were just naturally loud but I'm tired of him making remarks regarding my personality like sorry I don't have a high pitched sweet little voice, let a man walk all over me, gentle & basically a little angel! It makes me feel like complete shit but hey this is me so it's either he accepts me for who & what I am or leave me alone! I've never dealt with this is in any other relationship, just him! Am I right or wrong?