sex without a condom? advice

Question

So, ive recently been hooking up witha long term friend. We have used condoms ecerytime but earlier we were talkong and somehow sex without came up. He said it was an awesome feeling but it had been forever since he had experienced it. I wasnt sure if he was hinting that he wants to. I would be open to it, with birthcontrol as a back up. But idk how to bring it up/if that's what he wants. Advice on how to figure it out  or what to say to him???

Let me add that we have both been tested recently and are only sleeping with each other. Im not worried about STIs, more about how to know if he wants condomless sex/ how to approach that conversation with him

Answer

Please remember STDs. Are you sure you are the only woman he's hooking up with, and vice versa? Have you both been tested lately? Keep each other safe!

If that's all good, it probably won't be very difficult to get him to consider it with you. Remember that condoms are meant to protect you both so don't take it rough if he wants to be safe.

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Get on some sort of birth control and use the pull out method.

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Well first off make sure he is clean! Ask him if he's gotten tested recently. If you both are clean then get on birth control (cause it's a good idea anyway since you're sexually active). Then when you guys are hooking up, just tell him that you'd like to try it without the condom. You can use the pull out method too just to be extra safe!

sex without a condom? advice

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