grandparents

Anyone have trouble accepting SO parents as your child's grandparents? It's just hard for me. Like the way they bring kids up is different, different family traditions, and I'm the outsider. It just hasn't clicked in that these people are as much my child's grandparents as my own parents. I think the trouble comes from my parents see baby 3-4 times a week where as the other grandparents don't even see her that much in a month (and they live closer). I sound like such a bitch 😫