Why am I afraid to be single?😥

Question

So me n my bf are in a argument right now.. We've been together for 2 years n 11 months.. This month is our anniversary.. He's 21, I'm 18.. We live with my mom, brother n grandma right now.. But anyways he's mad bc I don't wash his laundry.. I cant always buy food for him.. Bc my job sucks.. So he messaged me saying "I'm just gonna starve myself until I get paid" n I was like "um okay" n he goes "k ima just move out on my own n only feed myself".. N thats where things went down hill so I basically sent him a huge ass paragraph telling him, he knows I'm depressed.. He knows I try my best to look for another job.. He expects my mom to buy him food.. Etc.. N he replied with "just bc you have a mental illness doesnt mean you can slack on life" is what he basically said.. N then he replied with "fuck it im done, I'm moving out by myself" I asked if he loved me n he replied with a blank response.. 
So I know hes an asshole.. But why am I so scared to be single? 
I mean I literally have no friends so I cant go out n do anything.. 
But I have a guy that wants to date me but I'm to scared to get into another relationship bc what if he tricks me like my current bf did?.. Idk what to do.

Answer

Um?! Wtf! He's telling you're being slack in life, I would say he's being the slack one since he expects your mother to buy him food, you to buy him food and do his laundry! Eff that. I wouldn't wait for him to 'move out' himself, it will just be empty threats. If he can't afford to buy his own food he won't be able to afford to move out alone. I'd tell him if he wants to keep this attitude up then he can leave. And tell him he has to be out by a certain date unless he changes his attitude. You're not his mother. He's a grown man, he should be able to provide for himself and not rely on you and your family. 
If he doesn't change his attitude, kick his ass out. You deserve better darl. Good luck xx

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What you should honestly do is dump that asshole your with at the moment and concentrate on yourself. That may sound dumb or maybe you have been told it before but believe me it's worth it. I used to think I needed to have a BF to be happy. You don't. Don't be afraid to be single embrace that shit and love yourself no matter what. Just from reading what you wrote this relationship your in will not last and he does NOT deserve you. He's an asshole to say the least. If he wants to leave hunny I'd be packing his shit for him right now and leave it on the doorstep and tell him have a good life. Nobody should treat you like that and I damn sure would not put up with it. It's ok to be single and enjoy life go out and make new friends there's plenty of places to go and meet new people and there are plenty of groups on Facebook and other social media sites made to made friends. You deserve better then that I hope you see that and let him leave you can do so much better then him and you should try concentrating on yourself for a little bit before being in another relationship. Best of luck ❤️

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He expects you to do all his laundry and buy him food cause of not he'll starve? Wth he can most defenitly move out and actually buy his own food. Leave him he's taking advantage of you and trying to use your mental illness as a way to make you feel bad. You do not need anyone who is bringing you down and just taking from you. You'll make friends and one day you'll be ready for a realationship again. Yes it can suck at first but trust me it'll be better then being with someone like him.

Why am I afraid to be single?😥

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