I think my husband is controlling me?

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I'm beginning to think my husband is a bit of a threat. I'm 6 months pregnant and started noticing some odd behaviour. I think I may be in an emotionally abusive relationship. ( he has never done anything physical)

What are signs I should look out for or behaviour that is wrong?

I think my judgement is a bit clouded by pregnancy hormones and doubt and over sensitivity so I could be wrong.

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Can you give examples?

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Loveisrespect.org

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Are you frequently misunderstood, and your intentions deemed dishonorable or manipulative? Do you end up feeling perplexed and frustrated? Do you feel as if there is something wrong with you, you feel bad and can't figure out why? Does your partner almost always disagree with you, and the smallest of discussions evolve into a major fight? Do you feel obligated to "give in" just to keep the peace in the relationship? Are you continually finding yourself fighting back what you'd like to say? If you approach your partner to talk about an issue with him/her, do you feel made to believe that it's insignificant and not worth talking about? Do you think that everything is your fault and that if you can somehow fix your flaws that everything would be okay in the relationship? Do you often give into sex and your partner's sexual demands just to keep peace—even if  you don't want to? Can your partner laugh at his own mistakes, or even admit his own weaknesses and shortcomings...or is he too busy focused on why you make his life miserable? Does your partner have total control of all the finances in the relationship, and criticize you for spending anything?

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I had an ex that was emotionally abusive and he would always tell me he was the only one that could love me and every else would use me and throw me away. He would call me names and always be suspicious of me even at work he'd say I was probably doing some guy in the back room. If I went anywhere he would text or call me a million times asking what I was doing and who I was with amd he'd always tell me to prove it by sending him a picture every 15 minutes. That's just some of what I experienced but it can be a range of things.

I think my husband is controlling me?

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