FWB to more???

Question

Any tips on how to make my friend with benefit want me to be his girl? We act like a couple when we are alone. He gives me a 100 little pecks and lead to making out. He kisses up my back after we have sex. He lays on top of me so I can't leave. Tickles me then plants a kiss. He is so caring a sweet and yet we are "just friends". And I kept my feeling hidden deep inside so I don't ruin anything. Because he has become the only person and truly makes me happy. Any advise would be welcomed.

Answer

Be completely honest. It's best you tell him now because if he's going to walk away, it's better now than when you get even stronger feelings. I know it's scary, but I would put my heart out there. Let him know you're okay with going slow, that you just want to know if there is that potential for more.

I had a friend with benefits 14 years ago and when I realized I loved him, I told him to tell me what I meant to him because I loved him and was ready to walk away if he could never see himself feeling the same. I was very nice about it, and told him I wouldn't be mad at him. That I just wanted to look out for my emotional health and didn't want to ruin our friendship. We took things slow and really got to know eachother with LONG conversations and cuddles. He is my husband and we have a beautiful 9-month-old baby 14 years later. I could not ask for a more perfect partner in life. You just never know.

Answer

I would ask if there is potential of becoming a couple and if not I would cut ties because it's going to hurt worse if you drag it out

FWB to more???

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