Middle finger to stuck up mom's and society.....

My husband and I go back and forth alot on having kids but sometimes we both just want to be like "fuck it" we love our freedom and our lives the way they are and it would basically be a huge middle finger to everyone and society who do the whole "Oh you're married? How long?..... what and you don't have any kids?????" Just to be like "nope, because that's what people expect you to do; get married and have babies" we just think there s more to life than just having a baby. Kids a great but they aren't everything.... We're still really undecided though and we've been married 7 years