am I wrong??

Question

So okay I need to know if I was wrong or not....

So my boyfriend tried to whip our son for peeing on him I told him he not about to whip him for a mistake...

By the way my son is 4 and still getting the hang of using the big boy potty 🚽 so he don't know how to hold him self long else til u put him on the big boy potty 
So when my boyfriend pulled his underwear down he made a mistake and pee on him cause he couldn't control it my boyfriend got mad and said he was gonna whip him I jump up and said no you're not it was a mistake then tried to argue with me in front of his friend outting all our personal business in the opening..,.....

All because I said he is not about to whip our son for a mistake am I wrong???

Answer

No you arent wrong, at least in my opinion. Hitting him isnt gonna make a difference. He should teach him how to go since he is a man and all. He is just a little one, I've known some grown men who don't have good aim 😂😂😂

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No! You are not wrong at all! You are completely right, your boy is still learning and your boyfriend needs to know that there's no reason to whip a child for a mistake he can't control. Whipping children is not okay, and neither is talking about something personal to friends!

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Your son made a mistake, he doesn't deserve to catch a whipping. Your boyfriend reminds me of my brother. He would whip my nephew for wetting himself in his sleep, and he was only two at the time.

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You were right for telling him he's not gonna whoop your son. You did everything right. I don't believe in spanking kids. But him wanting to spank his son for an accident is mean.

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Punishing a child for a toilet accident will make them associate toileting with fear. It will make them go backwards with progress and is a really bad idea

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I wouldn't of made a scene in front of other people. But he shouldn't whip YOUR son.. especially since it sounds like it's not his.

am I wrong??

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