maybe it's my fault

Kris
Do you guys think if I got a Message during my 2ww it could cause a miscarriage? I really thought I was be pregnant. I had sore boobs, cramping, discharge. Then the husband and I went on vacation and got messages and the very next day I started my period. At 11dpo. I woke up with the worst cramps I have ever had in my life!!!! And my period was so heavy. I had miserable pain for 3 days. Just glued to my couch with my heating pad. We have been trying for 5 months and I have never felt so devestated by starting my period. This is the first time I just couldn't stop crying. Feeling pretty down. :/ Also do you think it's not good to have sex during the 2ww?