Rape?

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The word rape has been thrown around a lot in this forum and it makes me upset. If you are in a relationship you can clearly say "I'm not in the mood."Accusing your boyfriend/husband of rape is a VERY BIG DEAL. You women throwing around the word rape so casually is why actual rape victims never get justice. You use it like it's an every day thing and everyone and their daddy is raping someone. 
I told my boyfriend "I will NEVER deny you sex". If you can't have a clear conversation with your partner what is okay and what is not. You do not have the rights to claim rape if you never said it's not okay or told him no. You have been with this man for how many years? And you so causally throw him under the bus in this app allowing everyone to call him a rapist? If it was a guy commenting about this, everyone would tell him to "man up" or blow it off. Some of you women are so damn petty.  If you have to ASK each time you have sex then your sex life isboring as hell and I feel sorry for you and your vanilla life style.

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For someone so concerned about the correct usage of the word and protecting "actual" rape victims, you sure are doing a lot of victim-blaming and adding negatively to this culture of rape.

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Some men do rape their spouses. If consent is given and talked about when the relationship is established that sets the two up to know what to expect. However consent must he given before each sexual act. If a woman goes a long with the rape, that does not make it consentual. In many cases you must do that in order to get less of a punishment or beating. The US Military also backed this claim up. While yes you are right in some ways, you are wrong in others. Just thought I'd share some facts in addition.

P.S. I am a real rape victim who broke her arm in the inccident.

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Oh good God.

How is life on that high horse of yours?

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Absolutely agree- though not everything is black and white but women must understand what a rape means!

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Thank you!!!! I see post all the time about "rape" and it's really concerning!! Rape isn't a game or something that you can just throw around! I feel like some girls are just so quick to say it and it's sad because that could ruin their WHOLE life's forever for something that was a misunderstanding or and exaggeration!! I'm so annoyed with all these girls just accusing and accusing of something not true. It's pretty fucking easy to understand consent and what rape is and if you can't comprehend it then DONT HAVE SEX.

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I agree to an extent, as in I probably would have worded it differently lol. My husband has never told me no, but I have told him I'm just not in the mood, and he respects that. I agree that unless you say no, it just isn't rape.

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I think rape has been thrown around this app waaaaay too much lately. Questions like "if both parties are drunk is it rape?" I mean, im glad people want to learn about consent, I really am, but the same questions are being asked once or twice a week, and the arguments on the thread are beginning to get out of hand imo. Its such a sensitive subject and we should be encouraging others to be willing to speak out and report their abusers, but some of the discussions on here push Rape Topics & Culture back so many years its gross! Learning about consent is super important, but theres other ways to go about it!

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I don't underwhy your boyfriend would want to have sex with someone who's not into it.  In my opinion that's kind of creepy.

Rape is the term used for any sexual act done without consent.  If my husband has sex with me when I have told him I don't want to, that is rape.

People get so fragile over term usuage and protecting the emotions of the oppressor and the rapist that they overlook the emotions of the people actually hurting,

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Ladies there is no such thing of being raped if you give them the consent to have sex with you .. I have read many things in this app about that word RAPE and these girls are saying that they got drunk and all that kind of stuff .. if you are at a party and start drinking .. what do you think is going to happen .. ?? I my self have been in parties and drank before and when i get home .. my husband and i end up having sex even if we both say no.. so now thats considered rape only cause I said no ?? .. RAPE IS A STRONG WORD!!  and you can't just go out in the world saying or asking if you got raped when you were the one who put yourself in that situation and the worst part consenting it .. like im dead with all them dumb coments and questions about them getting raped .. if you would've gotten raped trust me you would not be putting this in a social media .. because like it or not for any kind of women .. getting raped is something terrible and not something to play around with .. but seriously .. not everybody gets raped .. they might get drilled but not raped .. and for consenting it.. wtf😂😂😂

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Is this a response to the poll that was floating around earlier? 😒🙄

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