Did I do something bad?

Question

Okay... so I am on vacation with my family, which is hard because that means that I am away from my SO. Today my aunt and my grandma went to get a massage (they were treating) and I wanted to go with them because today was the last day for my to go (I don't have money to afford it on my own). Wel when I called the spa, they only had one appointment at the same time, and it was with a Male. 
I texted my SO and asked if he would be upset if I went, but he didn't text back, so I thought about it, and decided that I would not be upset if he had a massage from a woman, because I knew that it would be strictly professional. So I took the appointment and went, and when I got out, he sent me a text just saying "it's whatever, have fun" and when I asked him if he was upset he just said that he was and that he would text me after he cooled off.
Should I feel bad about getting the massage? I know his anger is justified, but it is not worth breaking up with me, right? 
I put please, or other personal stories?

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It's strictly professional. I have a guy friend who is a massage therapist and he does it because he likes it. Not because he gets to touch women. It's just a job to them. He shouldn't be upset about it.

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His anger isn't justified in the least bit. If he breaks up with you move on, because he either A) doesn't trust you or B) is a hidden controller/manipulator who would get mad if you get any work done by a male professional.

You also shouldn't feel bad over getting a massage. So don't let him try to guilt you into feeling bad and apologizing for enjoying a luxury while you could.

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Its a professional massage, you can't help it if its with a guy or a girl. They are professional people who were trained and are paid for doing it. He is probably jealous that he didn't get to go on the trip. I know my so gets jealous and gets annoyed easily with stuff like that knowing I got pampered while he is at home. Hell get over it.

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No? It's the mans job? I don't see a problem..

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I mean you didn't enjoy it sexually and it's not like you cheated on him. But I can understand that he'd be upset that another man touched your body.

Did I do something bad?

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