venting ! 😣

For Christmas I just wanna be with my little family I've created and my family but my family and bf isn't really seeing eye to eye , but what am I to do ? Just let my daughter not enjoy it the way I was brought up and be with him at his moms with no tree or any holiday meal no family just us 3 😓 I'm just confused and tired of all of the stress I hate being in the middle and she deserves to enjoy her very 1st Christmas with everyone that loves and adores her 😣