ex girlfriends? advice!!

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Should I allow my boyfriend to be friends with his ex? He tells me there's no feelings involved but I still believe she has feelings for him.. opinions?

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First of all, I don't think the word to use is "allow." You're not his mother, haha 
But, normal being friends with an ex means one of two things. 1; he's still in love with her 2; he never loved her 
Now, I personally would just talk to him and say "hey, I don't really want you to be friends with your ex. It makes me uncomfortable." Hopefully he will be understanding of this 
Good luck

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I think it's quite possible to just be friends with an ex. My dad's ex/high school sweetheart still keep in contact with him and she's married as well (they've kept in contact and it's been 20+ years now). I think it's just the way you perceive things. My mom's ok with it and I've FaceTime my dad's ex before as well (she's a really nice lady).

Like I said, it's just the way you accept and perceive things. But if you think that she still has feelings, ask your SO to be honest with you and set your boundaries. This is your relationship and you should be up front with him if they are still wanting to keep in contact. Good luck :)

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no, they shouldn't be friends. There is no reason.

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I personally wouldn't. I don't believe in bringing exes into a relationship. My guy cheated on me with his, so maybe I'm just scared. I don't know.

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Honestly if it's early enough in your relationship I would say something. I've been with mine for a year and now I feel like it's passed the time for that conversation. I'm not even fully sure they talk that much. I mean I know they have just not to what extent. It's caused some paranoia on my side (it's really her I know how she is).

Just voice how you feel nicely! I'm trying to muster up the courage to as well.

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No. This is trouble. They have nothing to talk about she is the ex for a reason

ex girlfriends? advice!!

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