This is so mortifying that I am going to actually have to say something but here it is:

My husband's family is soooo disgusting. They are the type of people that never go to the doctor, never go to the dentist, rarely wash their hands and drink out of the containers and put them back in the fridge without saying anything.

I am pregnant and I am dreading the day the baby is born because I am having anxiety thinking about all those turds touching on my newborn baby.

When I first started dating my husband I told him his teeth were a deal breaker for me (I know harsh!) But I wanted to be honest with him. He told me that his mother never took him to the dentist so when he was an adult he didn't see the importance of it.

I am a healthcare provider and I explained to him that oral health is just as important as everything else. I helped him schedule appointments, get rotten teeth removed and even surgery. He is so happy with his teeth now and I am happy too. He told me that bad teeth run in his family but it seems like it's more of lack of care then anything. I mean come on would you guys want someone who looks like they have meth mouth kissing your baby??

And the showering part is the worst for me. I know they have to smell their own groins and pits.

The problem is my husband thinks I am already too mean about his family so he won't want to say anything. I am scared depending on the type of delivery, I might be drugged up or something and not notice all their grimey fingers on my newborn.

What in the hell should I do???