little does he know..

Pearl
Today I was at a house filled with friends and friends of friends (lots of people I know and love and lots of new faces). We were all laughing and having the greatest time, and then everyone decided they wanted to feel my baby move. I was all for it so I laid out on the couch (baby only moves if I'm laying down) and lifted my sweater up so everyone could feel my bare belly. We were all smiles until a new friends husband came in and loudly stated "Wow, that's how every pregnant girl needs to look. All these other pregnant chicks are covered in stretch marks but Miranda doesn't have any! That's a real woman for you." So many of our faces went from smiling to just shock! I was bewildered and thought to myself...little does he know...
My body is so far from perfect. Little does he know my butt and thighs are covered in stretch marks. My boobs are starting to get them as well. My body isn't toned so much anymore and I definitely can't fit into any of my jeans! Little does he know that what he said was weighing so heavily on the minds of the other four women in the room who were earlier in their pregnancy than I am but who already have stretch marks on their tummies. Little does he know that those stretch marks are the result of little miracles being formed! Little did he know, my heart was breaking for the woman on my right. Her name is Melody and from the corner of my eye I could see tears slowly falling down her face. Melody was a new friend I'd made..Melody was married to that guy. Melody is 4 months pregnant and GLOWING with a beautiful baby boy! She even has proof of her baby by the little marks he's left on her belly! 
What I'm trying to get at is that everyone is different. We aren't what we seem, but we should never take to heart someone's ignorance. I can't say that I "love" my stretch marks, but I love the reminder that they are proof of my baby girl. Ladies, let's bring more body positivity into the new year! Happy holidays to all :)