I've always naturally been slim or skinny or whatever you want to call it. My whole life. That is just my body type. But yet my whole life I've had ppl telling me I'm to "skinny" and you're so pretty but if you gained some weight you would be perfect!!! Like I really want ppl to understand that it hurts just as much as someone calling someone fat or overweight. It's the same insecurity. I have tried to gain weight and always wanted to but it is hard. Just like some ppl lose easily, it's hard for some ppl to gain and vice versa. Words hurt and it causes a lot insecurities. Even my family says the same. I had to tell them leave me alone. I'm trying to gain weight!!! I've been trying to gain for sometime now but it's not to please ppl but to gain for myself!!! I just wanted ppl to know that they shouldn't comment on ppls weight because you dk that persons struggle.