My grandmother on Christmas...

On Christmas my 75 year old grandmother sat next to me, put her hand on my stomach, and said "come on you little shit I want to feel you move." I was so offended and hurt and can't believe anyone would call my unborn baby a little shit. What the heck?! Unfortunately that kind of speech is not uncommon in my family, but I don't want my son to ever be called that. Nothing I can do about it, just ranting.