Do you believe in "meant to be"?

Despite being told at a young age that I may not be able to have children I have been so very blessed. I have a 9 year old son and a daughter who just turned 1 last week. Although I had hopes of having one more my husband was not on board yet. My age, my health problems & the meds for it, plus the recent death of my son's father...we have our hands full & felt it wasn't the right time for a 3rd. Well, we were taking steps to avoid pregnancy but found out yesterday that we are expecting again. I must admit I cried at 1st. We were scared for all the reasons listed above and then some. All odds were against us getting pregnant but it happened anyhow so I'm telling myself it was fate. This baby was meant to be. It's going to be a tough adjustment but if god gave us this blessing he must think we can handle it.