A little something about consent

Can we PLEASE stop the bullsh*t surrounding the topic of consent? Only an informed and enthusiastic YES through the entire act is consent, anything less than that means that there's something wrong! Stop blaming the women for 'giving mixed signals' or not fighting it, and stop excusing the boys for being boys.

Sex is supposed to be fun and hot and very enjoyable but it is ruined by the twisted idea both men and women have about how 'one thing leads to another'. Please keep in mind that if your partner either doesn't respect your boundaries or doesn't want to talk openly about sex, they don't get the concept of consent!