My father was in the hospital 2 years ago dying with life support . So I get extremely nervous and I started crying really bad . I was watching my  husbands friends kid and they would be picking him up soon and I had also agreed prior to the situation to watch him today for a few hours. My husbands friend can definitely have taken today off as his his own boss. But I'm historically crying , nervous and my husband asks if I want him to come with . I shake my head a little saying yes and say if you want . He immediately seemed to back out by asking if I was okay to drive (clearly not asshole) he decided to stay behind and his excuse was because he was going to watch the kid for the 3 hours that I was supposed to -.- so  extremely hurt that his not here with me and I left the house angry because of his sad excuse to stay behind and not be there with me at a time of need. So since I left mad now his not even replying to my texts, my mom was transferred to another hospital a bigger one because she wasn't doing any better but yet he still can't respond . My heart hurts, I don't get it.